Sunday, March 27, 2005

posthuman: what, no bunnies?

This is the first year in my life in which I got jack from my parents for Easter.* My mom ("Me mum" for those Bri'ish readers joining us --- props to me mate Grovesie for the plug, Respect) has always sent me cards, in little packages with at least some form of chocolate. (Presumably the eternally scrumscious taste of chocolate symbolizes the imperishable, glorious body of our risen Lord...) This year, nada.

My point?

My point is that I --- a member of a generation of highly-mobile single adults (which probably includes you, dear reader) who are disconnected from their families and even from the earth itself --- am now without the one slender thread that implied a semblance of family relation at Easter-tide. And so I feel alone-ness.

No doubt tens of thousands of other "twixters" are experiencing at least as much family-disconnection as I am today. So I'm wondering: Is the huge prevelance of this isolation-from-family simply an extension of the kind of separation that historically has come with "urbanization," or is it a hallmark of a new qualitative leap in human social experience, perhaps even one which we're not adequately prepared to face? If the latter, does or will this imply anything
different about how we see ourselves as human beings (e.g. "I and those I know exist alone, apart from any familial context, which we regard as a superfluous luxury --- like chocolate") ...and how we're likely to develop?

-Scott

*Well, maybe. There was a ring of the doorbell a couple days ago, I must confess. But after many hopes dashed over the years, I've concluded that an unexpected doorbell-ring in the middle of the day pretty much always announces the arrival of someone I don't want to meet. So I let this one go... They're supposed to leave a note if they're UPS, and typically they leave the package there even though they're not supposed to.

5 Comments:

Blogger Onkel Sam said...

I don't think it's urbanisation or industrialisation. In many civilisations there is an initiation for young men, a time for them to learn the responsibilities of adulthood. The Aboriginees go on "walkabout", in Burkina Faso the initiation has been described as "enlargement of one's ability to see, destabilization of the body's habit of being bound to one plane of being, and the ability to voyage transdimensionally and return."
In Britain and, it seems, in the States we....go without chocolate eggs.
Where that leaves me, I don't know. I got more chocolate than I know what to do with, plus a lovely meal of Lamb Shanks in Redcurrant Sauce.

6:07 AM, March 29, 2005  
Blogger CoreFire said...

Interesting...

kev_j_daniel: I was certainly including "the youth moving off to cities for the promise of employment" under urbanization. Perhaps I'm mixing up my terms?

onkel_sam: A lack of initiation for young men in modern societies is an extreme problem --- I've been reading _Iron_John_ by Robert Bly and loving most of it. (Much better than John Edlgredge IMHO). But how does this lack of initiation relate to me being so disconnected from my family? ...I think I honestly almost "get" what you're saying and I'm sure it's a valid point...help me out.

And sorry if there's been any misunderstanding: this blog is intended to be about topical (and ON-topic) discussion. I have no will to maintain one of those "see what's up in my private life" or "keep in touch" kind of blogs. Thanks.

5:15 PM, April 08, 2005  
Blogger Unknown said...

thats why chocholate = love and everybody is so fat. Stick with the peeps and love your mom regardless.

5:47 PM, April 08, 2005  
Blogger CoreFire said...

You mean these things?

They have no fat??

Man, Peeps ROCK!

...except I hate the way they taste.

6:02 PM, April 08, 2005  
Blogger Unknown said...

then dip them in chocolate

10:15 PM, April 08, 2005  

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